Hi, I'm Deborah GraceÂ
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I am dedicated to helping you transform!
As a certified relationship and sex therapist, I draw on decades of study, writing, and thousands of hours of counseling focusing on intimacy and partnership.Â
I am an author of twelve books that awaken healing including the upcoming relationship book, Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me.Â
Through my writing, retreats, counseling and coaching, I'll help you discover your birthright - a strong, healed, authentic connection to yourself and thriving relationships.Â
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You are in the right place if you are feeling shut down, disconnected from your body, your partner or your life...
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If you crave better connection and intimacy...
If you wish you experienced more pleasure...
If you have unresolved past trauma...
If you feel heartbroken or out of control because of love...
If you even fear you will never discover or express your true radiant self...
You CAN access your inherent healing, beauty, vitality and creativity!
Work with Me
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Counseling and Coaching
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I work with highly motivated couples and individuals who are ready for transformation in the areas of intimacy and relationships.
In couples therapy, I help you build a strong foundation, delight in one another, and co-create your dreams.Â
In individual therapy, I help you embrace your body, sensuality, and joy, and overcome past experiences and trauma so your wellbeing and sensuality can naturally flow.Â
If interested, please use the contact form to get in touch. If you are in the Olympia, WA area, I offer in person sessions.Â
50 minute sessions are $200
Retreats
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Join me for a transformational Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreat where you’ll discover the key ingredients to a vibrant relationship.
Learn how to deeply connect, how to be in your body, how to give and receive, how to work through difficulties while staying connected, and how to communicate your authentic needs and desires. Skills and mindsets are taught in fun, playful exercises.Â
Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreats provide ongoing tools to take home so you can continue deepening and growing your partnership. Create the relationship you’ve always wanted!
Testimonials
“Deborah helped me more in one session than I had from years of working with just talk therapists.” - S.Â
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“I felt safe to look at my early childhood abuse with Deborah. She provided valuable tools for me to take to my relationship so I could address my triggers when they showed up in real time.”- A.Â
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“Deborah didn’t just help us with how to communicate like our last therapist, she helped us drop deeper to discover why we were stuck in unhealthy patterns. We were able to become each other’s allies instead of enemies.” - K. & C.
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“I am finally home in my body after working with Deborah!” - M.
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"In the Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreat, Deborah and Adam created a very safe and welcoming environment for us to learn, listen, and share about important and sensitive relationship issues. Their collective knowledge and experience as a couple, working through and solving real relationship issues, was validating and affirming. The workshop and materials were fun, challenging, and dynamic. The group participation aspect was energizing. All this in a backdrop of the magical calming location of Breitenbush Hot Springs. We would definitely attend this again.” - R. and P.
Books
Something for everyone!
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Announcing my upcoming book Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me,
which provides mindsets and tools for improving every aspect of your partnership.Â
As an author of non-fiction, poetry and memoir, I write to the heart of being a therapist, parent, lover and spiritual seeker. Join me as I share about my personal journey with recovery, motherhood, love and sex in the books The Mother Ship, Love Poems, Sex Poems and What Would Aphrodite Do?Â
My poetry series Year of ... books celebrate being human, with transformation always a theme. Finally, I embrace creativity and friendship with Violet the Band: How Three Everyday Women Rocked Everything.Â
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