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Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Retreats

Enrich your relationship, deepen your connection and reignite your passion! 

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Is your relationship stuck or stagnant? 

Do you:

Is your relationship stuck or stagnant? 

Do you:

Miss feeling romanced, want to feel special again?

To be Kissed…

Long to feel the spark again, to have adventure? 

To be Bitten… 

Crave connection, wanting to heal and grow together?

To be Pet…

Most of us want more.

 

More closeness, more touch, more play. 

Unfortunately, many of us don't know how to create the connection and vitality we crave. We might scroll on social media or porn, searching for an edge. We might love our partners but feel bored and uninspired. We might not feel safe enough in our relationships to talk about our lives or ask for nurturance. In the same way we advance in our jobs, or our exercise routines, we can add missing pieces to our intimate partnerships and lives.

We aren't taught how to have thriving partnerships.

Have you tried working on your relationship on your own, perhaps reading books or listening to podcasts, and are still unsatisfied? This is common, it’s not your fault.

 

Dive in and discover how to Kiss and Bite and Pet.

Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me couples work is based on the principle that we need three fundamentals in relationship...

Kisses

To be seen, chosen and cherished, to feel romanced

Bites

To play, have adventure, mystery and transcendence, to keep growing together

Pets

To experience healing, kindness and security, to create safety and support

Introducing

Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Retreats

A Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreat is a transformational journey designed to help you restore and reignite your relationship through expert guidance, hands-on exercises, and playful experiences.

During this retreat, you will:

Escape the distractions of daily life and fully focus on your partnership. 

Gain confidence on how to increase sensuality, repair any past hurts, and work together to create the relationship you’ve dreamed of having. 

Learn how to tune into your partner on every level.

Benefit from listening to the insights and witnessing the transformation of others in a group environment.

Bring home skills, tools and mindsets that will ensure your continued growth.

Learn how Kisses, Bites and Pets are a fundamental framework that can enhance your relationship with yourself, your friends and your place in the world.

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Guest Praise

for Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreats

We loved the playfulness of the exercises, thank you for giving us new tools beyond just talking.
 
- K. and T.

 

 
“I didn’t realize how much I hurt my partner, now we have the tools to repair and really grow close again.”

- D.

 

 
We never knew how to initiate sex and so we stopped having it. Now we know how!
 The sensual homework helped us drop into our bodies in a way we never have.

 - L. and N.

 

 
“We have been to many couples retreats, this was by far the most comprehensive and effective. We received real tools and loved the fun exercises that brought us closer. “

- J.

 

 
I was really nervous about attending a group retreat. Hearing from other couples was amazing! We learned so much from them and now feel that struggles are normal among couples. And we have confidence we can work through them.

 - P. and C.

About Your Retreat Hosts

 

Deborah Grace is a licensed mental health and sex therapist, author and seeker who believes healing begins when we embrace ourselves with compassion and patience. Deborah has a counseling practice which focuses on relationship, sexuality and intimacy. Incorporating trauma work, mindfulness and practical tools, Deborah helps clients strengthen their connection to themselves and their partners. Deborah loves to hike, write, play with her grandchildren and visit hot springs.

Adam Cooper brings elements of fun, adventure and enthusiasm. With a background in the political, private and snow sports sectors, Adam has led complex teams and delights in helping others to explore their soul’s calling and increase the light they bring to the world. Adam is a Gottman Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work leader. Adam loves creating strong communities, time in the trees, sliding on steep snow, swimming with sea life, and playing with his family. 

What’s Included in Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Retreat

At this retreat, you will receive:

  • Expert Coaching, learn to
    Initiate intimacy and improve your sex life.
    Communicate in a fair and loving dynamic.
    Help one another work through past traumas.
    Repair after relationship ruptures.
    Have fun and play again.
  • Guided Activities
    Private exercises that increase sensuality, intimacy, and connection.
  • Nutritious & Delicious Meals
    Delicious organic and vegetarian meals will nourish your body and delight your senses.
  • Personal Reflection & Growth Time
    Ample free time to reflect on learnings while you soak and relax at the sacred and healing property.
  • Plus, you'll receive...
    A Sensation Play starter kit
    Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me book
    Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Workbook
    Two follow up Zoom calls for ongoing support
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In Person Retreat

Join us at Breitenbush Hot Springs, OR on July 24-27th for a transformational journey designed to help you restore and revitalize your relationship through expert guidance, hands-on exercises, and playful experiences.

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Learning in real time with your partner is one of the most effective ways to improve your relationship and grow closer. We are busy creating both virtual and in person Kiss Me Pet Me Bite Me retreats!

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