Enrich your relationship, deepen your connection and reignite your passion!

Reserve Your Spot

Is your relationship stuck or stagnant?

Do you:

Is your relationship stuck or stagnant? Do you:

Miss feeling romanced, want to feel special again?

To be Kissed…

Long to feel the spark again, to have adventure?

To be Bitten…

Crave connection, wanting to heal and grow together?

To be Pet…

Most of us want more.

Perhaps it is more love notes, more date nights. Some of us scroll porn for hours searching for an edge. Some of us don’t feel safe enough in our relationships to talk about our lives or ask for nurturance. Some relationships have enough safety, but we feel bored, unseen. In the same way we advance in our jobs, our exercise routines, we can add missing pieces to our intimate partnerships and our loves. Dive in and discover how to Kiss and Bite and Pet.

Have you tried working on your relationship on your own, perhaps reading books or listening to podcasts, and are still unsatisfied? This is common, it’s not your fault.

We aren’t taught how to have thriving partnerships.

Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me couples work is based on the principle that we need three fundamentals in relationship...

Kisses

To be seen, chosen and cherished, to feel romanced

Bites

To play, have adventure, mystery and transcendence, to keep growing together

Pets

To experience healing, kindness and security, to create safety and support

Introducing

Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Retreats

Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me retreats are a transformational journey designed to help you restore and reignite your relationship through expert guidance, hands-on exercises, and playful experiences.

During this retreat, you will:

Escape the distractions of daily life and fully focus on your partnership.

Gain confidence on how to increase sensuality, repair any past hurts, and work together to create the relationship you’ve dreamed of having.

Learn how to tune into your partner on every level.

Benefit from listening to the insights and witnessing the transformation of others in a group environment.

Bring home skills, tools and mindsets that will ensure your continued growth.

Learn how Kisses, Bites and Pets are a fundamental framework that can enhance your relationship with yourself, your friends and your place in the world.

Reserve Your Spot

Guest Praise for Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me

We loved the playfulness of the exercises, thank you for giving us new tools beyond just talking.

- K. and T.

“I didn’t realize how much I hurt my partner, now we have the tools to repair and really grow close again.”

- D.

We never knew how to initiate sex and so we stopped having it. Now we know how!
The sensual homework helped us drop into our bodies in a way we never have.

- L. and N.

“We have been to many couples retreats, this was by far the most effective and comprehensive. We received real tools and loved the fun exercises that brought us closer. “

- J.

I was really nervous about attending a group retreat. Hearing from other couples was amazing! We learned so much from them and now feel that struggles are normal among couples. And we have confidence we can work through them.

- P. and C

About Your Retreat Hosts

Deborah Grace is a therapist, author and seeker who believes healing begins when we embrace ourselves with compassion and patience. Deborah has a counseling practice which focuses on relationship, sexuality and intimacy. Incorporating trauma work, mindfulness and practical tools, Deborah helps clients discover and strengthen connection to self, other and spirit. Deborah loves to hike, write, play with her grandchildren and visit hot springs.

Adam Cooper brings elements of fun, adventure and enthusiasm. With a background in the political, private and snow sports sectors, Adam has led complex teams and delights in helping others to explore their soul’s calling and increase the light they bring to the world. Adam is a Gottman Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work leader. Adam loves creating strong communities, time in the trees, sliding on steep snow, swimming with sea life, and playing with his family.

Deborah Grace & Adam Cooper

What’s Included in Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Retreat

At this retreat, you will receive:Expert Coaching, Learn how to:

Expert Coaching
Initiate intimacy and improve your sex life.
Communicate in a fair and loving dynamic.
Help one another work through past traumas.
Repair after relationship ruptures.
Have fun and play again.
Guided Activities
Private exercises that increase sensuality, intimacy, and connection.
Nutritious & Delicious Meals
Delicious organic and vegetarian meals will nourish your body and delight your senses.
Personal Reflection & Growth Time
Enjoy ample free time to reflect on learnings while you soak and relax together in a sacred and healing property.
Plus, you'll receive ongoing support, and...
A Sensation Play starter kit
Deborah's book Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me
The Kiss Me Bite Me Pet Me Workbook
Two follow up Zoom calls for ongoing support

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In Person Retreat

Join us at Breitenbush Hot Springs, OR on July 24-27th for a transformational journey designed to help you restore and reignite your relationship through expert guidance, hands-on exercises, and playful experiences.

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Future Retreats

Learning in real time with your partner is one of the most effective ways to improve your relationship and grow closer. We are busy creating both virtual and in person Kiss Me Pet Me Bite Me retreats!